Social Media Hostility: Why?

Sunday Brunch featured soundbites from the above ‘Sussex & Surrey Soapbox’ podcast episode…. to skip chapters click on the 3 horizontal lines (left in the above player). Have your say via WhatsApp (bottom right) or join the conversation in our Facebook Group HERE.

 Roundtable Featuring: Michelle Lucas (Special Guest), Maureen Jones, Micaela Leal, Georgie Lucas, Aga Es, Abigail Chapman-Miller, James Tidy & Magdalena Rahman. Host: Clive Hilton. 

Social media can make grown adults talk like strangers at war, and we’ve all felt that shift. We dig into a blunt question: does the internet reward conflict more than community? and is it warping local democracy in the process?

We talk through what the run-up to the 7 May local elections looked like from the front line, including the personal cost of campaigning when online abuse escalates into accusations, slurs, and lazy labels that replace real policy debate. James and Abigail share how quickly people jump to “Nazi”, “transphobic”, or worse, and why that kind of reductionistic language doesn’t just hurt feelings, it discourages good people from standing for office at all. We also explore the tribalism that turns politics into a football match, where winning the argument matters more than understanding the neighbour.

Then we pull back the curtain on the incentives: algorithms, rage bait, bots, and the odd reality that longer angry comments can be worth more than simple support. We debate anonymity and accountability, including the legitimate need for anonymous profiles in situations like domestic abuse, while still calling out how “purple pomegranate” accounts can poison community Facebook groups. We also widen the lens to loneliness, generational change, and what constant screen time is doing to children’s imagination and social skills.

Run Gatwick returns this Sunday

The Run Gatwick half marathon and 5K will be taking place in Crawley this Sunday.

Starting on Southgate avenue the route will see participant run through Crawley, past Gatwick Airport, up to Charlwood and back down, finishing at Southgate park.

There will be road closures in place and residents are advised to plan travel times around the diversions.

Polls open in local elections

Voters will be heading to the poll today to vote in Local Elections.

In Surrey, residents will be voting for councillors on two unitary authorities which will replace the county, district and borough councils from April 2027.

In Sussex all 120 seats across the two county councils are up for grabs while there also partial borough elections for Crawley.

Polls open at 7am and will close at 10pm tonight. Voter are reminder to bring ID with them.

Results will come out over night and into tomorrow.

Coroner rules death of 12-year-old as ‘shocking accident’

A coroner has ruled the death of a 12-year-old girl after she was hit by a falling branch while playing on a rope swing was an accident.

Brooke Wiggins died in November 2024 after a large tree branch in Banstead, snapped off and crushed her.

The inquest had heard Surrey County Council had failed to inspect the tree months earlier and had not carried out work that could have made inspecting safety issues easier.

But Assistant Coroner Ivor Collett dismissed the criticism and said Brooke’s death was a “shocking accident”.

Terence Herbert, SCC’s chief executive, said he extended his “sincere condolences” to Brooke’s family and friends.

CCYS Adopt Ifield Station

Sunday Brunch featured soundbites from the above ‘Sussex & Surrey Soapbox’ podcast episode…. to skip chapters click on the 3 horizontal lines (left in the above player). Have your say via WhatsApp (bottom right) or join the conversation in our Facebook Group HERE.

Amanda Foster, Youth Worker In Charge with Crawley Community Youth Service (CCYS) shares why they recently adopted a neglected local train station and how quickly things improve when people decide to care. SUSY Sunday Brunch were outside Ifield Station in Crawley on a sunny day as the Adopt a Train Station project kicks off, bringing together local residents, youth workers, and young volunteers who want their station to feel cleaner, safer, and more welcoming. You’ll hear why visible fixes like litter picking, tackling graffiti, and better lighting are not just cosmetic changes but signals that a place is being looked after.

Rowena Tyler, Arun Valley Line Officer from Southeast Communities Rail Partnership explains how station adoption works, what support is available, and how volunteers can turn ideas into action through planning help, grant guidance, and partnerships with rail operators. Along the way, kids share what they’re excited to do and why “one small thing” can add up to something bigger.

We also hear Parveen Khan support this brilliant initiative with appreciation and recognition of the young volunteers. Positive impact is possible when communities stick with it – gardening groups, artwork, heritage restoration projects, and friendships that start with a single litter picker. If you’re in Sussex or Surrey and you travel these lines, there are stations still waiting for adopters, including Littlehaven, Crawley, and Three Bridges.